Friday 17 February 2012

How hard is it to follow instructions?

Instructions are generally hard to follow for the average person. Conversing and doing things are simple, but once an instruction is attached to it, it’s like most brains switch off. My guess is that people don't really like being told what to do, or it could be that people strive to do the exact opposite of what they’re told- just because they can! If you sit for a minute and really think about it, you’ll find that it is indeed a real challenge to follow an instruction and carry it out successfully. 



From a young age we are told what to do by our parents, teachers and friends. So in our mind, being told what to do is more of a demand than an instruction and this in some way makes us feel that we have no choice in the matter. Ever heard of the term “rebel”? It is human instinct, or should I say the norm these days for people to go against whatever they’re told to do- mainly because, where’s the fun in being bossed around?





If you deem yourself to be one of those average folk, have a look at the list below, for tips on how to follow instructions and have it successfully executed:


1.    Listen. Listen. Listen. Enough said.
2.    Write everything down. There’s no point in attempting to follow an instruction if you forget half of it.
3.    Absorb it. Take in what’s said and decide on what needs to be done.
4.    Stop being a know-it-all. We all know where our ego gets us, yes, nowhere.
5.    If your attitude stinks, give it a wash. With a different attitude and outlook you will realize that you’re not being bossed around (unless it is indeed your boss… or your mother).
6.     Take action.
7.    Assess whether you have followed the instructions correctly, and if not- try again.

If you have followed the above advice and have however still failed, then it is time to face facts. Good luck though. 









1 comment:

  1. great article, I agree with people not wanting to be told what to do. Nicely written and kept me reading till the end.

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