From a young age we are told what to do by our
parents, teachers and friends. So in our mind, being told what to do is more of
a demand than an instruction and this in some way makes us feel that we have no
choice in the matter. Ever heard of the term “rebel”? It is human instinct, or
should I say the norm these days for people to go against whatever they’re told
to do- mainly because, where’s the fun in being bossed around?
If you deem yourself to be one of those average folk, have a look
at the list below, for tips on how to follow instructions and have it
successfully executed:
1.
Listen. Listen. Listen. Enough said.
2.
Write everything down. There’s no point in attempting to follow an
instruction if you forget half of it.
3.
Absorb it. Take in what’s said and decide on what needs to be
done.
4.
Stop being a know-it-all. We all know where our ego gets us, yes,
nowhere.
5.
If your attitude stinks, give it a wash. With a different attitude
and outlook you will realize that you’re not being bossed around (unless it is
indeed your boss… or your mother).
6.
Take action.
7.
Assess whether you have followed the instructions correctly, and
if not- try again.
If you have followed the above advice and have however
still failed, then it is time to face facts. Good luck though.
great article, I agree with people not wanting to be told what to do. Nicely written and kept me reading till the end.
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